I am happy to announce that my work week has come to an end today. I worked extra hours Tuesday and I worked today (which I normally don't) so, I get to take the rest of the week off. Yay!
So, have you ever realized how hard it is to compromise with someone?
Jade & I have been throwing the idea out about moving for a while now. I have mixed feelings on this. Part of me wants to move, get into a different house yada yada. The other part of me is trying to not let me forget how I dislike change and that we have done so much to this house that I would hate to leave it in someone elses hands. I mean if we moved would they take care of my pond? Would they leave my plush and pretty new carpet stain free? These are the things I think about. I would feel compelled to dig up my jap. maple because I know that I take care of it or the three trees we have planted in honor of loved ones who have passed? Reyna was brought to this house for the first time. So, I do want more space, but I also want to hold onto this house at the same time.
Jade & I never house hunted. We live in a house that his grandparents built. When his grandma went into a home, Jade decided to purchase the house. We have a great size yard, the house is 2000 square feet. I would like to change a few things, but other than that, I am pretty happy.
Here's the dilemma.....
Jade is about as country as they come. Me? I would be happy in a good sized house with a backyard big enough to play in, somewhere close and convenient to town. I don't want to live way out like we do now. Well, Jade found a house. It's not out in the middle of nowhere but, it's not in a neighborhood. I would prefer to live in a neighborhood. The house is nearby my parents and very close to his. We would have the conveneince of our family being closeby. The house is on 10 acres, has a pool, a big pole barn for all of his crap, finished walk out basement, four bedrooms. He is completely sold. I'm not.
Part of me is saying, "yep it's time to move." The other part is saying, "why would you get rid of your tiny mortgage and assume a lot more land and work to go along with it." Am I being crazy? I have told Jade that we have trouble finding time to take care of the lawn we have. How are we going to find time to take care of ten acres? Where is Reyna supposed to ride her bike, make friends, set up a lemonade stand?
I am definitely not wanting Jade to move downtown, (or as he would say a pile of concrete) but I definitely want to come to some sort of compromise. I am not sure where to start. Maybe we'll just stay right where we are for a while.